Of course there are limits. but I'm amazed at Catie's personal touch.
A little story:
I'm older, and I don't like chasing after Catie, so it was really my own fault that Catie never spoke to me for a long time, and eventually, it started to bug me. It had been a couple of years. So it builds up over time, and eventually I told Boxxmom that I thought Catie hated me. Again, the reality is that this was all on me.
Well, Boxxmom convinced me that Catie was very much aware of me, and likes when I stick up for her (that made me proud) and after a while, I got a shout-out from Catie.
Not an automatic one the same day. A thoughtful one, very sincere, and very classy, too. Nothing forced that would have embarrassed me for being a jerk.
And then I got another shout out!
How genuine is Catie? More genuine than we have any right to expect.